Wednesday, May 30, 2012
“I’ve spent most of my life and most of my friendships holding my breath and hoping that when people get close enough they won’t leave, and fearing that it’s a matter of time before they figure me out and go.”
Shauna Niequist, Bittersweet (via simply-quotes)
I have two parents who wholeheartedly believe that my life is going absolutely nowhere- that I won’t make anything of myself. Let my tell you- it is probably the worst feeling ever. Completely disheartening. Sometimes I really believe them, believe that I am incapable of being successful and that I really am headed nowhere fast. How awesome is that? It honestly makes me question what the point in trying is sometimes. Then I remember that I have time to become what I want to become. I pray to God that it’s something spectacular. That it’s everything I want and it makes me happy. That it’s something I can be proud of. More than anything, I hope, no, I pray, that I can prove them wrong and show them that I am capable of so much more than they think.
“Stop trying to “get it together.” The biggest lie we’re told when we’re growing up is that soon as we’re adults, as soon as we’re in college, finish college, get that job, have that steady income, find that someone special, “find ourselves,” find that perfect house, get that retirement fund, have those children, everything will fall into place. Here’s a secret: it won’t. Every new development in your life, good or bad, big or small, will come with its own very special set of challenges. The sooner you accept that, the better off you’ll be. But the myth is perpetuated throughout life, perhaps now more than ever with happy status updates on Facebook and blushing bride/happy multi-tasking mommy blog posts. What these success stories don’t tell you is what is going on behind closed doors. They don’t tell you that your friend who is so over the moon with her new baby had to apply for food stamps. They don’t tell you that your fantastic, involved professor struggles with depression. They don’t tell you that your happily married friend still has nightmares about her abusive ex. They don’t tell you the cousin who just got that jealousy-inducing job opportunity is thinking of breaking up with his boyfriend of 10 years. What closely interacting with people from all backgrounds on the Internet for over a decade has taught me is that no one “has it together” in the way we think they do. So stop trying to have that as your goal, because you are just setting yourself up for massive failure.”
Nanna Freeman (x)
Monteith will oversee the third episode of The Glee Project, airing June 19, which will focus on “Vulnerability” and address bullying
(Source: chrispaulfer)
